Tuesday, September 1, 2009

My short-term long-distance communications w/ my daughter

My daughter is currently in Seattle, relaxing for another week or so as I undergo Sloan Orientation. She'll join me on Saturday and begin school in Cambridge on Tuesday, September 8th. We'll then embark on the Boston Odyssey for a short cruise that night to celebrate our first Fall school day. Growing up, I never celebrated big that way on my first day of school, but hey, I can be a cool parent too.

I wanted to share a small window into Chassitty "Chas" and into our relationship by posting some of her communications while we're away.

On my first day of school for the LGO program (June, 2009), she sent me this video message via OoVoo (I apologize for the Seattle glare!):

Link to Youtube




Today, on my first day of Orientation for the formal Sloan MBA program, I received this email:

On 9/1/09 12:22 AM, "Chassitty Saldana" <@yahoo.com> wrote:

Hey mommy,
Since you haven't been emailing me besides information that's important, I wanted to talk to you.
I just wanted to say that i love you and miss you so much and that
you are the best mommy in the whole world!!! Even my friends tell me that, every time I have a sleepover they always end up telling me that you are the best mom in the world and that they wish their mom was just as cool and pretty and nice as you!

IF YOU'RE OUT ON THE ROAD
FEELING LONELY AND SO COLD
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS CALL MY NAME
AND I WILL BE THERE ON THE NEXT TRAIN

WHERE YOU LEAD
I WILL FOLLOW YOU
ANYWHERE THAT YOU TELL ME TO
IF YOU NEED
IF YOU NEED ME TO BE WITH YOU
I WILL FOLLOW
WHERE YOU LEAD!!!
our song

TE QUIERO TANTO TANTO TANTO.......
our other song

~Chassitty


The first song excerpt is the theme song to the show "Gilmore Girls" (Official Link), a show we've been watching since she was a baby and a show whose characters (Lorelai and Rory) we relate to.

The second song referenced is "Te Quiero Tanto" by Onda Vaselina and is a song I sang to my daughter when she was a baby. As she got older, I stopped singing the song, but one day, she heard it on TV, connected the memory, and we've sung it together for fun since then.

You'll read more about Chas later!

4 comments:

  1. That is very sweet, thanks for sharing! We are considering the cruise too. If you ever have a day (like today) where you expect to be out until 7 or 8 and want somewhere for her to go, we can help out!

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  2. Thanks! And likewise.
    The cruise should be fun.

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  3. I loved the email that your beautiful daugther sent you a few months ago. I am also very impressed by your determination as you struggle to maintain a school/mommy balance. Nora, you are my hero :) Mucho exito en tus finales, y siempre!

    XOXOXOX

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  4. Hi,

    I happened to come across your blog as I was trying to research about the LGO program since I am going to apply within couple of days. I must say this post was the most touching post I have read in days. I remembered when I moved out of home and how I used to write to my mom. I also was back in my childhood when my mom had to be out for few days while she was pursuing her third professional degree. I was 9 then and was (and still am)very proud of her since pursuing education after marriage and kids was not a very regular phenomena in India those days.
    So I just wanted to say thank you for sharing such a beautiful post which revived so many memories for me.

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