Showing posts with label children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label children. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

My short-term long-distance communications w/ my daughter

My daughter is currently in Seattle, relaxing for another week or so as I undergo Sloan Orientation. She'll join me on Saturday and begin school in Cambridge on Tuesday, September 8th. We'll then embark on the Boston Odyssey for a short cruise that night to celebrate our first Fall school day. Growing up, I never celebrated big that way on my first day of school, but hey, I can be a cool parent too.

I wanted to share a small window into Chassitty "Chas" and into our relationship by posting some of her communications while we're away.

On my first day of school for the LGO program (June, 2009), she sent me this video message via OoVoo (I apologize for the Seattle glare!):

Link to Youtube




Today, on my first day of Orientation for the formal Sloan MBA program, I received this email:

On 9/1/09 12:22 AM, "Chassitty Saldana" <@yahoo.com> wrote:

Hey mommy,
Since you haven't been emailing me besides information that's important, I wanted to talk to you.
I just wanted to say that i love you and miss you so much and that
you are the best mommy in the whole world!!! Even my friends tell me that, every time I have a sleepover they always end up telling me that you are the best mom in the world and that they wish their mom was just as cool and pretty and nice as you!

IF YOU'RE OUT ON THE ROAD
FEELING LONELY AND SO COLD
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS CALL MY NAME
AND I WILL BE THERE ON THE NEXT TRAIN

WHERE YOU LEAD
I WILL FOLLOW YOU
ANYWHERE THAT YOU TELL ME TO
IF YOU NEED
IF YOU NEED ME TO BE WITH YOU
I WILL FOLLOW
WHERE YOU LEAD!!!
our song

TE QUIERO TANTO TANTO TANTO.......
our other song

~Chassitty


The first song excerpt is the theme song to the show "Gilmore Girls" (Official Link), a show we've been watching since she was a baby and a show whose characters (Lorelai and Rory) we relate to.

The second song referenced is "Te Quiero Tanto" by Onda Vaselina and is a song I sang to my daughter when she was a baby. As she got older, I stopped singing the song, but one day, she heard it on TV, connected the memory, and we've sung it together for fun since then.

You'll read more about Chas later!

Saturday, August 29, 2009

School-aged children & the Cambridge Public School System

Have school-aged children? Looking into the Cambridge Public School System? Start early!

I had been planning my adventure in Cambridge for the last 3 years or so, and most seriously over the last year (I was admitted to the program w/ the class of 2010, but opted to defer admission). I knew that my daughter, now age 11, would be relocating with me and that I'd need to "look into" schools. However, based on my experience with schools in Los Angeles and in the Seattle area, I was predisposed to believing that the apartment address dictated the school. In L.A, in Seattle, and in most other civilized U.S towns, public schools are assigned to district zones and where you live determines where you may learn, unless you're part of a magnet program or have a crazy talent or something like that.

So, in about March or so, I started looking into schools and behold the CPS (Cambridge Public School) surprise. Within Cambridge city limits, all schools are assigned by lottery. Parents apply to the district, rank the schools of their preference, and the system runs through a crazy algorithm that attempts to diversify gender, race, and socio-economic factors (ex whether or not a child qualifies for free lunch).

Why is this system a pain for parents?
1. The "good" or popular schools have a long waiting list. The waiting list is prioritized primarily by the date your application is submitted.
2. In order to submit an application, you must have secured a place to live within Cambridge city limits.
3. The application must include your choice of schools - in order to rank school choices, you have to conduct lots of research and arrange school tours (time, stress, reading, time, stress, reading).
4. The application must be submitted, in its entirety IN PERSON at the Family Resource Center in Cambridge.
5. The coup de gras for me is that you're forced to select an apartment...then your school is selected for you...and the school selected could inflict more time and stress due to transportation, after-school programs, accessibility concerns.

So, what happened in MY case? I found out about the CPS process in mid March and picked 5 schools I was interested in [also note that in Cambridge, most elementary schools service grades K-8]. I also found out about a program called Intensive Studies Program (ISP), offered at 2 Cambridge Public Schools. The program covers the same curriculum as every other class, but is geared towards students with a motivation and interest in learning. Nothing fancy - same breadth, but more depth. As my luck had it, the application for the program was due early April, and in order to apply to the program, I had to concurrently apply to the district. In order to apply to the district, I had to secure an apartment.

So...I attended LGO Open House in early April and set up 5 school tours while I was in town for 2 weekdays and 2 weekend days. I flew in on a red-eye from Seattle, arrived Thursday AM and went on 3 school tours and 1 apartment showing that day. I also attended most LGO activities. The following day, I went on 2 school tours and 3 apartment showings. I picked an apartment, signed a lease, got my affidavit of residency notarized, ranked my top school choices, and ran to the Family Resource Center to hand in my registration packet!! Months later, I heard back and was happy to hear that we got our first choice and the ISP!

In summary, life worked out and despite the heartache the CPS system caused ME, I must say that I appreciate the effort that goes into ensuring multi-faceted diversity in the classroom. As far as YOU are concerned, please start the process early!

For more information on registering your kids with the Cambridge Public School system, go here: http://www.cpsd.us/FRC/forms.cfm

I'm tackling after-school programs next!